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<title>technique for avoiding discomforting questions</title>
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<description><![CDATA[ever get into a conversation where someone is asking a question that is discomforting such as the way one feels about their job?  i have an interesting technique to get one out safely from such a scenario.  however, there are two requirements involved: 1) you need good verbal skill; 2) you must be mentally superior to the person asking the question.  if you meet these two requirements, you can handle what i'm about to reveal.<br />
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let's say someone comes up to you and asks you, &quot;How do you really feel about your job?&quot;  worse yet, it's your manager or boss.  you're unhappy but you don't want to admit your true feelings about the situation to avoid a potential situation.  to deal with this, you can distract the person from the original question through a detour/digression.  lead the person away to something related.  tonight this happened to me so i said quickly, &quot;Yes.&quot;  But my manager attempted to push the issue (he was drunk though).  I moved the discussion to about how a previous coworker would talk about how Japanese would argue over work while drunk.  i managed to move the conversation away enough from the original question and evaded it.<br />
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you have to move fast and steer the question away towards something interesting and that makes the person forget what they asked.]]></description>
<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jul 2007 08:04:28 -0600</pubDate>
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